Kya kahun…??

 

Kya kahun..? Ab me unko kya kahun jo bde ban kar bhi choti harkat kar jate hain ab me unko kya kahun…?

Wese bat to normal si hai but agar ham sochen to whi bat itni bdi hai ki hamen chota bna deti. Esa hi kuchh aaj huaa to socha apko bhi bta dun, thoda smjha dun. Ye topic hi life related hai to main bat to yhi aati hai ki ham kisi se bat kese krte hain ya hmara behaviour kesa hai. Kabhi kbar aapne dekha hoga ya to fir suna hoga ki us kisi ne ese bat kri wese bat kari, ya fir koi bda nam bala insan jiski wah wahi sabhi taraf hai but usne aaj kisi chote se ya apne kisi bde se is trah bat kari ki sari respect kho betha. Or dusri traf ye bhi sunne ko milta hai ki chota sa simple sa insan or apne bdon or choton se kitne pyar se bat krta h usi se usne apne respect pa li.

                Kisi se bat krne ka tareeka hame aana chahiye, na aaye to hme seekhna chahiye, inhin baton par hmari respect tiki huye hai. Ya ye smjho hmare bolne ke treeke se ya hmareh behaviour se hi log hame judge karte hain. Ham chahe bdi post me ho, ameer ho ya fir greeb lekin hme bat karne ka saleeka aana chahiye. Khud se bdon se or choton se kese bat karni hai hme pta hona chahiye. Ham bde hain to iska kya matlab ki ham apne ghamand me ye bhul jaye ki choton ko pyar dena hai or bdon ko izzat. Hmare bolne ka treeka hi logon ko pasand aata h. Achhe se bat krenge sbka adar krenge to sab hme wesa hi pyar or adar bapis krenge. lekin ham ghamndi ho to log kya, hmare khud k hi dost hmse bat karna pasand nhi krenge ya to hme dekh ke hi apna rasta badal lenge.

                      Ham bde hain ye soch kar kabhi esa kam na karna ki kab ham itne choten ho jayen ki hme pata na chle. Wese chota ya bda hona hmari kmaye nhi batati hmara behaviour bata hai. Or wo log jo khud par apne peson ka ghamand rakhate hai, to ab unke bare me main kya kahun….? Ese logon ko smjhao unko sikhao ki aap khan galat hain but kuchh smjhane par bhi nhi samjhte to unse door rehna hi behatr hai. Or jo smjh gye hon, to please apne ese behaviour ko change kren. Apani izzat apne hi hath me hai ise samjhen.

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